This weekend, I took my child to the airshow in Dongguan. Before we set off, I thought he would be very excited, after all, many of his toy cars suddenly became "real," and that feeling must be wonderful.
However, once we entered the exhibition hall, he only showed excitement at first, and then went off to explore things that interested him. Many of the crowded "sights" around him, he didn't even look at. So what did he go to see? It's funny to say—
He pushed my camping car through the crowd, occasionally trying to bump into others or objects on purpose. After I stopped him, he would turn the car around and laugh "giggly."
In the rocket and tank exhibition area, he didn't linger over these grand items. Instead, he got excited when he discovered some small holes in the ground, pulling at my pant leg and pointing at the holes, saying "ah ah ah" non-stop (he can't talk yet).
There were many similar moments. I found that he could always uncover some interesting things and feel excited about them. I would follow his thoughts, participate in his joy, and discuss these interesting discoveries together.
In the end, when I looked through the album, there were hardly any photos of him with the exhibits; most were interesting moments during his exploration.
If your child is like this too, why not let them explore joy on their own, without imposing adult happiness on them? Strive to be a big friend who doesn't spoil the fun.